Children always are the apple of their
parents’ eyes. With the improving of people’s living standard, the society and
parents provide a more privileged life for the children. For a child, he may
experience no frustration until he grows up. So, some people point out if
children living in such circumstance, they may be unfit for the brutal
competitive society. How to care for children in a right way becomes a hot
debate. I have two suggestions for this question.
First of all, parents should let their
children go. Everyone is unique in the world and everyone has their own
thought. Although parents care for their children, they can’t arrange
everything for their children. Besides, maybe what they arrange is not the
thing that their children want. They have their own way to go and they have to
face everything by themselves one day. Why not let them grow up little by
little? Spoiling children can provide a non-polluted environment for them from
the appearance, but in fact, it will increase the difficulty for them in their
later life. So parents need to let their children walk on their own, instead of
trying to hold their hands at every turn.
In addition, parents should listen to their
children. Though children’s thought is immature to the adult, they need to
listen to their children, so that they can understand what the children want
and need. This is a good way to treat people. If parents only put their thought on
children without asking anything, it is the way to treat animals. And if
parents understand their children’s thought, they can lead them in a proper way
to make children grow up healthily.