beings, we communicate throughout our lives for various porpoises. But just
because we've been communicating for a long time does not mean that we are
always successful or that we can’t improve our communication skills. How can we
convey successful communication? Well, there are several useful tips may help
you to improve your communication skills.
all, listen and respond thoughtfully to others. You should spend more time
listening to others instead of boasting yourself. Some of us are very
egocentric, which means self-focused. If you spend too much time talking about
your own stuff, the people around you may think you are a tedious and annoying
person. So, the best way to do is to consider our friends’ thoughts and
feelings. Try to be a good listener, when you express yourself, thinks about it
carefully before you really say it.
appropriately adapt messages to others. It is not enough to be sensitive and
accurately understand others; when your send out your message, you pick up the
best ways and respond to others to achieve your communication goals. But it
does not mean to say something that the listener wants to hear. That would be
unethical. Appropriately adapt messages to others means carefully editing and
shaping your responses so that your messages can be understood by others and
you can achieve your goals.
not least, try to interpret nonverbal messages. As we all know, unspoken
messages can express powerful ideas or emotions with greater impact than mere
words. You should try to observe others facial expressions or movements and
give correct responds to others. You can see the emotions or attitude from
one’s gesture stops. Be sensitive and appropriate interpreting others.