放手

当学生读大学，这意味着他们是成年人，他们可以自己做决定，承担起责任。然而父母在变老，他们不应该为孩子做完所有事情，他们需要对孩子放手，让孩子变得独立。如果他们做太多，会阻碍孩子去照顾他们自己。

Why to ask so much when you are in love? The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future. 爱，又何必多问？成熟的人不问过去，聪明的人不问现在，豁达的人不问未来。

Children always are the apple of their parents’ eyes. With the improving of people’s living standard, the society and parents provide a more privileged life for the children. For a child,